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Inspirational Quotes on Change

Saturday, February 28th, 2009

“The world we have created is a product of our thinking;it cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”
—Albert Einstein

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“We must be the change we wish to see in the world.”
—Gandhi

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“I am only one; but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. I will not refuse to do the something I can do.”
—Helen Keller

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“Light tomorrow with today.”
—Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Inspirational Quotes on Imagination

Thursday, June 19th, 2008

“Imagination is more important than knowledge.”
—Albert Einstein

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“If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”
—Thomas A. Edison

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“Think left and think right
and think low and think high.
Oh the thinks you can think up
if only you try!”
—Dr. Seuss

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Inspirational Quotes on Hope and Possibilities

Sunday, January 20th, 2008

“If seed in the earth can turn into such beautiful roses, what might not the heart of man become in its long journey to the stars.”
—G.K. Chesterton

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“If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”
—Thomas A. Edison

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“Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree.”
—Martin Luther King, Jr.

Meditations for Relaxation, Creativity, and Learning for Children and Adults

Friday, October 19th, 2007

The book, Spinning Inward by Maureen Murdock, (Using Guided Imagery with Children for Learning, Creativity and Relaxation) is an excellent resource for introducing children, or anyone, of any age, to going within through meditation or visualization.
 

Maureen  offers many wonderful exercises in guided imagery here, 33, in fact, designed to teach relaxation, explore multi-sensual learning, improve skills and self-image, encourage creativity, and develop the ability to be calm and focused.

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Among the exercises is a beautiful relaxation meditation designed to foster healing, as well, called Waterfall of White Light.  Also included in the collection, are exercises with titles like Crossing Senses, Skill Rehearsal with a Master Teacher, Time Traveling, The Ally Within, Heart Meditation, Clearing Space, Sanctuary, and Knowing Your Potential.


Guidelines with each exercise give you:

suggested ages (some can be used with children as young as three, most are appropriate for all ages, up to and including adults)

time required (typically from 5 to 10 minutes, some even shorter, a few a little more extensive) and

time for follow up (if anyone wants to share any part of their experience or write or draw or express themselves in some other creative way)

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The guidelines make it especially easy if you’re looking for meditations you can use with students in a classroom, or in workshops for adults. They work well for self-hypnosis, too. Try recording some of your favorites and listening to one for 5 to 10 minutes a day. Some parents have even used some of them like bedtime stories. If you do that,  just change the suggestion at the end from waking up to letting yourself fall asleep and have pleasant dreams.

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Maureen offers many, many other practical tips, as well. One idea I liked was her suggestion to give fidgeters a small ball of clay to hold while doing an exercise. Another one was to engage the participants as they come back to awareness. Most often, at the end of a meditation session,  you’ll be led to return to awareness to the count of 5 while listening to the suggestion to keep the peaceful feelings with you. Maureen Murdock counts all the way to 10, inviting those meditating to join her in counting when she reaches the number 6. For example, “In a moment I will count to ten. Join me at the count of six, opening your eyes at ten, feeling refreshed and alert…”

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To give you a sample of what you will find, I’ve included an excerpt below from an exercise that’s a great introduction to the whole experience. From the section called Learning with All the Senses, it’s especially good for activating your creativity. It’s designed to help you become more keenly aware of your senses and to notice which ones you may use most easily. Paying attention to which images are most vivid for you may help you discover which learning styles you’ll find most effective.

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Maureen suggests changing the exercises in whatever way suits your needs. I took her suggestion and substituted some different images for the some of the originals. Whenever I use guided imagery, I always like to be sure people know that it’s not only OK, it’s actually good to change the images, if the ones suggested are not to your liking. So, for example, when you encounter the suggestion to think of the smell of pine trees, if you’re thinking, “But pines trees make me sneeze!”, you can change the image to something you like instead, like the smell of pizza or mint tea.

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The whole idea is to have a positive experience. Changing the images as you go along becomes part of the process of learning to pay attention to your thoughts and to recognize your power to choose different ones. Let any undesired image go and choose one that you prefer instead.
What follows is an excerpt adapted from an exercise called:

Multi-sensory Imagery


As always, begin by getting comfortable in a place where you won’t be disturbed for a little while.

After helping you to relax, the meditation begins by saying:
In a moment I will suggest to you several images on each side of your brain.

I’ll pause after each suggestion so you’ll have a moment to experience each image.

Just keep your eyes closed and then begin by looking to the left side of your brain.

On the left side, let yourself experience the color blue….

Now let that image go and look up into the right side of your brain.

On the right side, let yourself experience the color orange….

Each time you change sides, let the last image go and allow yourself to experience a new one.

Now, on the left, you experience the texture of something soft, like the skin of a baby’s cheek….

on the right, the texture of something rough, like tree bark….

Now on the left, you smell the good smells of a bakery….

On the right, you can smell pine trees….

On the left, you taste a bite of a cookie you like….

On the right, you taste a slice of lemon….

On the left, you hear the sound of wind chimes….

On the right, you hear a loved one saying your name….

Now let those images go, and imagine that your body is as light as a feather….

You see a soft, fluffy cloud nearby that can easily carry you. You can ride on it if you like….

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The meditation goes on from there, allowing time for some exploration floating on a cloud, and then calls you back to the room for a chance to share your experiences. This would be great to use before any creative activity.

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I strongly recommend this book for anyone working with children, of course, but if you’re also looking for a great resource to use with adults or to inspire your own personal creativity, don’t miss this gem. There’s much to like within its pages. Spinning Inward by Maureen Murdock is available at this link from Amazon, if you’d like to check it out.

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I’ll leave you with a quote from the preface:

“The essential act of imaging, like all creative art, is the bringing into being of a vision. The images we spin inwardly become the reality we spin out.”
—Maureen Murdock

 

 

 

 

Inspirational Quotes on Peace

Friday, September 21st, 2007

 

“There is a place in you where there is perfect peace.
There is a place in you where nothing is impossible.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“There is a silence into which the world cannot intrude.
There is an ancient peace you carry in your heart and have not lost.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“The only way to have peace is to teach peace.
By teaching peace you must learn it yourself.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“Each little gift you offer to your brother lights up the world.”
—A Course in Miracles

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“Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me.”
—Sy Miller and Jill Jackson, songwriters

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These quotes on peace are in celebration of Peace Day, September 21, 2007
For more on how people all over the world are marking this day, check this link:
http://www.peaceoneday.org/home.aspx

I especially liked the video of the song, No Wars Will Stop Us Singing.

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For the complete lyrics and the story of the song, Let There Be Peace On Earth, you can visit this site:
http://www.jan-leemusic.com/history.htm

 

What’s the Good Word? Mindfulness Meditation With Your Thesaurus

Monday, September 3rd, 2007

 

Serendipity, or, discovering something valuable by accident, is one of my favorite experiences. When considering some words for the title of something I was writing recently, I looked for some synonyms for words having to do with abundance and well-being and soon found myself feeling very positive and very peaceful.

It dawned on me that what I had been doing, without realizing it, was a sort of mindfulness meditation or self-hypnosis. As I considered each word, I was trying it on and seeing how it felt, getting an inner sense of the word. Just by reading through a list of words in this way, I was putting myself in a positive mental state.

To give you a better sense of what I’m talking about, here are some of the words and their synonyms:

Abundant - richly or plentifully supplied, ample, more than enough, to abound, to overflow, to be fully supplied.

Flourish - to grow well or luxuriantly, to succeed, to fare well, to prosper

Prosper - to be successful, to flourish, to thrive

Well-being - quiet pleasure, contentment, ease, comfort, coziness, great satisfaction, euphoria, good health, fitness, rosiness, wholesomeness, robust health, glowing health, picture of health, in fine fettle, mint condition, heartiness, bursting with health, full of life and vigor, vital, blooming, feeling one’s oats, to feel happy, sing, purr, smile, laugh, beam

Wow - apparently it works when you write them too.

If you’d like to try this for yourself, just follow the instructions below.

Of course, the first thing you’ll need is access to a thesaurus, so here are some links to some  - one free online thesaurus so you can try this right now and one which links to Roget’s International Thesaurus, the book, on Amazon, if you don’t yet own one but would like to.

When I did this meditation initially, I used a book and could see all the entries for a word on the page, which might have some advantages. But either way should work just fine. You might also like to have a pen and some paper nearby for any notes you’d like to make.

The Thesaurus Meditation

Sit down with your thesaurus. Begin by choosing some words that are soothing to you, representing peace, a favorite color, perhaps, or the way you’d like to be feeling, or just some words that you happen to like.

If you’re having trouble thinking of some, you might try the words, kindness, happiness, and gratitude.

Let yourself get comfortable and take three slow, deep breaths.

Now, as you look up your chosen words in the thesaurus, spend a little while reading the synonyms, following where they lead. When you notice some words that you like, look those up and let yourself be led from pleasing word to pleasing word. Continue for as long as you like.

Notice how you’re feeling as you go. You might even want to write some of your favorites down when you’re finished, so you can easily return to this positive state whenever you read them.

Have fun with this. I wish you great peace and a happy experience of serendipity.

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Serendipity -  a chance discovery, finding, spotting, recognizing, bringing to light, finding treasure

Peace - quietness, stillness, restfulness, comfortableness, harmony, concordance, heart’s ease,  feeling at home, sheltered, calm, tranquil, soothed, composed, being relaxed, experiencing serenity, nirvana

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If you try this and would like to share your experience, just click on the word “comments” below this post.

Comment - to observe, note, mention, remark, muse, reflect, give one’s two cents’ worth, express, affirm, exclaim :-)

 

Mindful Eating

Thursday, August 16th, 2007

Even though I broke a tooth last week, it doesn’t hurt. It just seems fragile, so I’ve been very careful to do all my chewing on the other side of my mouth until my dentist can do his magic.

So I decided this would be the perfect time to practice mindful eating.

Mindful eating, some say, can be used as one tool in a weight loss program. Instead of mindlessly consuming your dinner in front of the TV, barely noticing what you’ve eaten and never feeling really satisfied, you slow everything way down and observe each individual action, which, together with many other individual actions, makes up the activity of eating.

Eating this way has opened up a whole new world. I’ve been paying careful attention as I select one blueberry from my plate, lift it to my lips, place it in my mouth, taste its sweet blueberriness on my tongue followed by a burst of tartness as I bite into it and feel my mouth begin to water. The practice continues with careful chewing and swallowing and even paying attention to the sensation in my belly after it arrives there.

Everything I have eaten over this last week has been eaten in this same way - some tiny chunks of watermelon, some spoonfuls of rice and hummus and steamed spinach with melted rice cheese, a little yogurt. Each one eaten very slowly, very mindfully.

I have to say that I’m finding it very satisfying to really pay attention to each bite. And, interestingly enough, I actually have lost a few pounds this week. Fascinating.

I first learned about mindful eating a few years ago in a workshop given by a fellow hypnotherapist teaching us about the weight loss program she offers her clients. For this experience, she asks them to practice eating grapes mindfully.

If you’d like to try it, any bite-sized food that you enjoy will be suitable. Fruit works well. Some people eat just one piece of their favorite chocolate mindfully. You may discover why some consider mindful eating one path to enlightenment.

The following script leads you through the process of eating one bite of food mindfully. If you choose to eat a whole meal this way, just repeat the process with each bite, allowing your stomach to tell you when it’s satisfied.

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Mindful Eating Script

Begin by selecting a bite-sized food that gives you a feeling of well-being, and sit down in a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed.

Breathe in slowly as you count to yourself, 1–2–3–4 and then breathe out slowly 4–3–2–1.

Take several more slow, deep breaths as you allow yourself this quiet time.

Let a welcome feeling of relaxation spread over your scalp and neck and shoulders, down over your cheeks and jaw and tongue and down into your belly. Just let your belly feel soft and relaxed.

Now take a moment to appreciate this food you have chosen, as you notice its shape …, its color…, its texture….

Describe it simply to yourself. If it’s a grape, for example, you might say something like - it’s rounded and green and smooth.

Think of this food being nourished by the sun and the rain and the earth, before it came to you.

Pay attention to how you are feeling about this food.

As you look at it, you can even say a little thank you, if you wish.

Notice the part of you that decides to begin eating.  As you move your hand slowly toward the food, observe your hand and describe your actions to yourself - reaching, reaching, reaching, and then observe your hand lifting, lifting, lifting, as you raise the food to your lips.

Before putting it in your mouth, take a moment to smell the food.

Notice whether you desire this food and where in your body you feel that.

Take a bite of the food and close your eyes, noticing how the food feels in your mouth.

Slowly chew.

What tastes do you notice? Sweetness? Sourness? Saltiness? Bitterness? Mildness? Spiciness?

Appreciate the taste and describe it simply to yourself.

Swallow when you’re ready.

Now, with eyes still closed, be aware of any sensations in your stomach.

Think of the energy of the sun and the earth entering your body, bringing health and nourishment to every cell.

Stay with that feeling of well-being for a while.

When you’re ready, bring your attention back to the quiet place you have chosen and open your eyes, still feeling very good.

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Inspirational Quotes on Inner Peace

Tuesday, July 31st, 2007

If you have inner peace, the external problems do not affect your deep sense of tranquility. You are happy regardless of circumstances.
—Dalai Lama
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Therefore, in our daily life a certain way of thinking makes us happy, and a certain way of thinking makes us unhappy. In other words, there are certain states of mind which bring us problems, and they can be removed; we need to make an effort in that direction. Likewise, there are certain states of mind that bring us peace and happiness, and we need to cultivate and enhance them.
—Dalai Lama
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Peace starts within each one of us. When we have inner peace, we can be at peace with those around us. When our community is in a state of peace, it can share that peace with neighboring communities.
—Dalai Lama

Inspirational Quotes on the Power of the Mind

Saturday, June 30th, 2007

We spend most of our time and energy in a kind of horizontal thinking. We move along the surface of things going from one quick base to another, often with a frenzy that wears us out.  We collect data, things, people, ideas, “profound experiences”, never penetrating any of  them……

But there are other times. There are times when we stop. We sit still. We lose ourselves in a pile of leaves or its memory. We listen and breezes from a whole other world begin to whisper.

—James Carroll

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Inside yourself or outside, you never have to change what you see, only the way you see it.

—Thaddeus Golas

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Don Juan assured me that in order to accomplish the feat of making myself miserable I had to work in a most intense fashion, and that it was absurd. I had now realized I could work just the same in making myself complete and strong. “The trick is in what one emphasizes,” he said. “We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.”

—Carlos Castaneda, Journey to Ixtlan

7 Ways You Can Relieve Stress Right Now

Sunday, June 17th, 2007

 

1. Take a Deep Breath. Then do it again. Now once again. One of the simplest ways to relieve stress in a matter of moments is to change your breathing.

Have you ever noticed that when you’re feeling stressed you typically breathe very shallowly, often rapidly, or sometimes even hold your breath? That can’t be good.

We can relieve stress by intentionally slowing and deepening our breathing, which mimics the way we naturally breathe when we are most relaxed. Practicing the Inner Smile Meditation you’ll find here on the blog is one of many ways to slow and deepen your breathing and relieve any stress you may be feeling.

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2. Laugh. Most of us just know intuitively that laughter is good for us. A merry heart doeth good like a medicine, as I’m sure you’ve heard.

Laughter has become a real focus of study, especially because of the many ways it benefits our health: protecting our heart, easing pain, reducing blood pressure, aiding digestion and respiration, to mention just a few. For an in-depth article on the benefits of laughter, you might find this article on How Stuff Works interesting.

And to experience the benefits of laughter right now, you might enjoy reading some of these observations from the amazing mind of comedian Steven Wright. I love the way his humor just sneaks up on you until before you know it, you’re giggling.

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3. Call a Friend. Sometimes a different perspective is all we need in stressful situations. There’s nothing like talking and laughing with a friend to help us see things differently. If the friend you’d most like to talk with is an old friend you’ve lost track of, you can look them up in the white pages at AnyWho.

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4. Listen to Soothing Music. Music can transform our mood very quickly and ease feelings of stress. Hypnotherapists, meditation instructors, massage therapists, and Reiki masters all know how soothing the right music can be for their clients and all have their favorites.

Two of my favorites are on CD’s you can find at Amazon. Since I promised that these were 7 ways you could relieve stress right now, here are two links where you can listen to free samples of relaxing music.

The first is a beautiful version of Pachelbel Canon done by Gordon Jeffries and the second is Mike Rowland’s And So To Dream Highly recommended anytime you need to unwind.

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5. Get Inspired. Sometimes just reading some wise, thought-provoking, inspiring or just plain funny thoughts from those who have been here before can help us shift our perspective in the middle of stressful times. Here are a few to start you off:

“There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so” - William Shakespeare

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“I have given everything I see all the meaning that it has for me.” - A Course in Miracles

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“I could see peace instead of this.” - A Course in Miracles

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“In the depths of winter I finally learned there is in me an invincible summer.” - Albert Camus

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Check out a few more inspirational quotes.

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6. Relax Completely. Taking yourself through a relaxation process that helps you to let go of the tension you’re holding in muscles all over your body is a very powerful way to relieve stress. Doing it on a regular basis helps you to keep your stress levels low.

You can use this script for a progressive relaxation in a number of ways.

You can just read it through to yourself to get the idea and then settle into a comfortable position as you follow the process. Sometimes people find it helpful to find a partner who will read it to them or some prefer to read it into a tape recorder and play it back for themselves.

No matter which way you choose to do it, whenever you follow the process, you will feel much more relaxed when you’re done.

Here’s the script for a progressive relaxation.

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7. Experience Guided Meditation. Try one of the free beautiful audio samples on Belleruth Naparstek’s Health Journeys site.

Here’s one by Belleruth designed to soothe anxiety and stress. If she had an affiliate program, I’d sign up. Her stuff is wonderful!

 

Relieve Stress With Meditation Online

Sunday, May 27th, 2007

For an easy way to take a meditation break online, you might like to check out The Meditation Room at Lime.com.

There are a series of rooms to choose from ( 6 so far), consisting of beautiful slide show images with audio accompaniment. You’ll find the Space Room, the Forest Room, the Water Room, the Zen Room, the Floral Room, and the Winter Room, all viewable online, with additional options for downloading to iPod or subscribing at iTunes.

Each room is a celebration of the beauty found all around us. Each one leads to a state of calm as it focuses attention on a series of images. Each room also has appropriate music or nature sounds which can be turned off if you prefer a silent meditation.

I always like to try things out before I recommend them to you, so I can tell you that I have happily visited each room several times. My two favorite experiences are listening to the sounds of ocean surf (instantly relaxing for me) while watching the images of water drops in the Water Room and, being immersed in the beautiful shades of green in the Forest Room, which leaves me feeling very healthy, very calm, and with an overall sense of wellbeing.

You can find your own favorite for free at The Meditation Room at Lime.com. and feel calm too.

Paying Attention

Tuesday, March 27th, 2007

 

Part of learning to meditate is learning to pay attention. To observe. To notice. To look at the world another way.

It’s like a game my family used to play on long car trips when I was a kid. Everybody’s family has their own version of it, of course. Sometimes it’s spotting license plates. Ours was called “My Volkswagen!”

This was back when the Volkswagen’s unique size and shape stood out among all those large American-made cars and only came in two forms, as I recall - the VW bug and the VW bus. It was easy to spot them coming from quite a distance on the highway. The idea was to be the first one to call out My Volkswagen! and to keep a running tally of just how many Volkswagens you had seen.

Like all good travel games, it focused your mind on something besides being bored sitting in a car for hours and, of course, made you much more aware of all those Volkswagens which otherwise might have passed by unnoticed.

Paying attention. Noticing. Observing. Looking at the world another way. Seeing what is already there that we just haven’t noticed. Poets and songwriters, writers and artists, photographers and scientists, comedians and meditators all do it regularly.

Circling Around

One way to practice paying attention is to play a little game by setting a task for yourself. The one I decided to play is one where I quietly noticed all the circles around me as I moved through the day. The number turned out to be astounding.

An alarm clock, a mirror, a lamp, the showerhead, a bathroom cup, the top of the vitamin bottle, a ring, the teapot, a cup and its saucer, an orange, an apple, a bagel, and the pretty blue and white plate I put it on.

It seemed that circles in all sizes and colors were everywhere I
looked and it was only breakfast time.

If you decide to play this game, you’ll see what I’m talking about. Cars and buses and trains are full of them. Cellphones, computers, CD players, newspapers, magazines and books all have circles too.

They populate our world, showing up as symbols in many cultures and spiritual practices, and as critical components in science and math. They’re part of the way we move and dance, of the money we exchange for goods and services, of the sports we play and the rings we give to pledge our commitments to each other.

They’re part of the weather, and the shapes of our Earth and its sun and moon and the stars we wish on.

Noticing all of this makes me think of one of my favorite Harry Chapin songs, coincidentally entitled Circle. During his live performances, Harry would ask the crowd to join in singing:

 All my life’s a circle.
 Sunrise and sundown.
 The moon rolls through the nighttime
 ’Til the daybreak comes around…

 (You can hear the whole Circle song here for free. If you decide you want to own it, I recommend the version on Harry Chapin’s Greatest Stories Live album available from Amazon.)

Paying attention to the simple circle has led me to some interesting insights. Even this article could be called a circle as I return to the point I made at the beginning. The practice of paying attention, whether you try it for a few minutes, an hour, or a day, can help you see the world in a whole new way.

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If you want to play with this idea a little more, you might find this post by Linda Salazar at Awaken The Genie Within interesting. It’s all about noticing the WOW moments in our lives.

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